Exchange 让我发现爱一个人真的很苦难,不是说要爱就爱得到。。。就像我的室友。相处24小时,摩擦是免不了的。我试着去包容、去迁就、去忍让,可是我做不到。是心胸不够宽阔吗?我不知道。我是一面镜子,你怎么对待我,我就会怎么对待你。很公平,很简单。后来我发现不对,就开始学习“别人对我不仁,我不许对她不义”。结果我发现,这很难做到。明明自己受委屈,不喜欢,不开心,为何还要装作无所谓,就为了保持和平关系。我的感受是如何,其实已经不重要。听你叙说着我做了什么让你不开心的事,我只是一笑置之,因为这些真的是芝麻绿豆的事,真的不值得一提。我真的很抱歉我所做的事不合你心意。可是我也有我做事的方式,我有我的选择。我总不能因为你的超敏感神经而事事都迁就你,你就不能迁就一下我吗?你也做了不少让我不开心的事,我也没要求你改或对你说你带给我困扰,忍一忍就算了。只能说,我能迁就的都会迁就,反正熬完这段日子也就算了。不是泄气、不是伤心、不是绝望。。。是看开了吧?毕竟家庭教育、家庭背景不同,好好和睦相处过完这段应该属于美好回忆的日子,我就心满意足了。不好的回忆会随着时间慢慢褪色,没什么好挽留。我能给你的就那么多,我能为你做的就那么多。
Thursday, October 29, 2015
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Wednesday, February 11, 2015
由爱生恨
I hate you for making me hate you. I never hated you, now I do.
Love turning to hate is indeed possible.
Why do you have to torture us like this?
You were once our friends, you taught us things, and when you left, we couldn't stop. We understand you wanted to leave, there's nothing we can do. And now you're back, how are we suppose to welcome you with open hearts? It's such a pain to see you back and we can't help but feel the rage in our hearts. If you decided to leave at the first place, just never come back, please.
Love turning to hate is indeed possible.
Why do you have to torture us like this?
You were once our friends, you taught us things, and when you left, we couldn't stop. We understand you wanted to leave, there's nothing we can do. And now you're back, how are we suppose to welcome you with open hearts? It's such a pain to see you back and we can't help but feel the rage in our hearts. If you decided to leave at the first place, just never come back, please.
Tuesday, February 10, 2015
Peculiar much ;)
We both keep our thumbdrive in our wallet.
We both have 4B pencils.
We are peculiar.
We both have 4B pencils.
We are peculiar.
Monday, January 26, 2015
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